3 Keys To Help You Live Your Life To Its Fullest

Your life is meant to be something great. At different times in your life you have probably wondered what it is that you are supposed to do with it. You know that there is more to your life but you’re not sure how to possess it. Here are 3 keys to help you live your life to its fullest potential.

1. Believe in yourself.

 

If you don’t believe in yourself, who will? On the other hand, if everyone believes in you but you don’t believe in yourself, you will never reach your full potential. Someone once said that everyone is superior to their fellow human in at least one way. Find that thing that you are the best at and start believing in yourself so that you can have great success.

 

 

 

 

2. Take a risk.

 

This will always be somewhat scary, but to live your life to it’s fullest you will have to take some risks. This is where believing in yourself is so important. If having a successful life was without risk, then everyone would have successful lives. Step out from among the crowd of mediocrity and take a risk to become the best you that you can possibly be.

 

 

 

 3. Don’t give up.

 

This is probably the biggest reason why people never live their life to its fullest. Don’t let yourself fall into this same category. Believe it or not, failure is a part of success. Talk to any successful person you know and they will tell you that they have failed more times than they wanted to. The difference between them and most people is that they didn’t give up after the failure. If you want to live your life to its fullest, don’t give up until you have what you want.

 

 

 

 

These 3 keys will help you live your live the way you always knew it was supposed to be, one of happiness, joy, success, and fulfilment. You have something great on the inside of you; don’t let anything stop you from reaching your greatness and fullness in life.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Let Me Fall and I Will Learn

. Some time ago a friend of mine invited me to the skating rink. I couldn’t skate well; in fact I’ve gone skating only once in my life. And that was some years ago:) But I have roller blades and I’m not bad at that. I thought that the difference between them is not too big and I will be able to skate not so bad.

When I came to the skating-rink, I was able to skate, but it was difficult for me to keep my balance. I didn’t feel the ice; I needed practice to get used to it.

From the beginning my friend took my hand and we were skating together, we were skating fast and that was great. But every time I lost my balance I squeezed his hand and he kept our balance. When I tried to skate alone I understood that skating alone was not that easy for me. But he was always there to hold me. He took my hand to skate together again and again. And we were skating together almost all time we were at the skating rink. I’ve had fun and I liked it a lot. But did I learn to skate?

In some days I went to the skating rink with my boyfriend. We were not planning to skate, so when he suggested going there, I laughed and said: "I can’t skate well; I will fall all the time" He said: "No, you won’t - I will be there to hold you, I can skate well"

Suddenly I stopped and said: "No, let me fall and I will learn, let me skate alone and do not hold me"

He laughed: "Ok, as you wish"

I started to skate it wasn’t easy but after some time I could feel the ice much better and my skating was rather confident.

Then he came to me and said: "I think you’ve got some mistakes in your technique. To master the art of skating imagine that you are a child and you make your first steps. You move all your weight on one leg and step" He continued to explain me; I listened to his advice and repeated everything he showed me. Now after some more time and these tips I was skating well. At last my skating was amazing! I felt the joy of being so confident and free:)

 

Then he took my hand and we were skating together, now it was absolutely different. Not only he could support me in difficult moments but I was able to support him. Well, I should say this was a real skating!

My point is if you want to learn skating, you should skate alone.

Everytime you look for support, try to do the thing by yourself, don’t be afraid to learn, do not be afraid to ask for advice, do not be afraid to fall. As Chinese proverb goes: "Fall 7 times, get up 8 times" And you will learn! When you can, you can not only look for support, but you can also provide support for someone.

A help from the other is good but do not look for it, do not wait when someone will fix your problems, you should always be ready to fix them by yourself. The life will help you to do that; it will show you the way.

And if you want to skate well with someone, both of you should be able to skate alone. This will be the real balance.

By the way, I didn’t fall, every time I lost my balance I managed to stay up. Maybe because I was not afraid to fall…

The Simple Truths about Falling and Living in Love

We are meant to live a life of love. When we're not in love, something's the matter. Unfortunately, most of us, unaware of this, become resigned to disappointment, loss and upset in relationships. No matter how successful we are in other aspects of our lives, many do not feel entitled to the same success in love. This is considered natural as one "grows up" and gives up the fantasies, foolishness and dreams of childhood. But nothing could be further from the truth. It is the fantasies, foolishness, and confused expectations we develop as we grow older that keep the love away.

 

Being in love is the most mature and realistic thing you can do. It energizes your life, fills you with positivity, creates generosity and makes every moment beautiful. The body heals, the heart is happy. As a great teacher once said, "We never ask the meaning of life when we are in love."
If being in love is our natural state the real question is, what is it that keeps this most precious inheritance away? How can we reclaim it and return to the intrinsic trust and joy we had as children?

Many fear they will be hurt. But contrary to popular opinion, real love never hurts or wounds. It is only our confused expectations that can undermine our lives. There is a Buddhist saying "Give up poisonous food wherever it is offered to you." But most of us do not know what is poison and what is nourishing in our relationships.

Once we know the difference between real and counterfeit love, once we learn the laws of love and how to practice them, we will be able to live a life of love and build relationships that cannot fail. The fact of the matter is that we can begin to do this and turn our lives around at any time.

To begin this process, let us look a little deeper. It always seems as if relationships are difficult-difficult to find, to keep and to enjoy. Yet the fundamental truth is that there is no inherent problem with relationships at all. There is never a scarcity of relationships, there is never a scarcity of love.

Some complain that they can't love because there is something wrong with the person they are with. No one can please or satisfy them. In the beginning they may feel as though they've found the perfect person, but before they know it, conflict develops, irritation grows. The joy of feeling loved and valued, fades away. Most people have no idea why. Ultimately, from the psychological point of view, not falling in love, is not so unusual. In fact, many can do very well, become quite healthy, and yet never get over their disappointments in love.

Spiritually speaking, there's a different point of view. Is a person's very life at stake if they aren't able to truly love? The answer is Yes. Without the ability to know real love, the precious taste of this life is thwarted, and a person may be doomed to living her days as a "Hungry Ghost." But we can change this at any moment.

To begin we suspend judgment and disbelief, become willing to become a child once again - explore, play, hug, cry and feel that the world is filled with endless possibilities. We also must develop the ability to say No to all of the people, beliefs, habits and desires which can take our faith and love away.

We need to be willing to allow ourselves to look for and find that which is beautiful and worthwhile in everyone, (including ourselves). And, somehow, let them know. Falling in love doesn't mean being blind, or entering into fantasy. It means waking up out of darkened dreams to finally see the beauty which surrounds us. A little endurance is required, along with the willingness to face the shadows that will dispel as soon as we invite in the light.

 

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